Well, if you don't toot your own horn from time to time, there may not be any music at all. So there. ;-)
I first published this pattern to the GLBT knit-list (http://www.glbt-knit.com/ ) in late 2002. After unexpectedly coming across a hard copy of the post, I went over the pattern and decided it had to be redone.
So I gave it a facelift, added instructions for an additional size, added some pictures, a little of this and some of that.
It's linked at Ravelry ( www.ravelry.com ) on QueerJoe's knitting blog ( http://queerjoe.blogspot.com/ ) and is housed at the Men's Knitting Retreat website: ( http://www.mensknittingretreat.com/ ). Have a look at the website, maybe sign up, then get the pattern under the Background/Media Links tab.